A word about Twins and it's not what you think

During meditation we often get signals, messages from a variety of sources.  I've received messages during a meditation from everything ranging from an angel to what looked like an oversized loaf of bread.  Still, I take each message seriously enough to think about it.  Today I received a messages from someone in my meditation which can best be described as "clarifying."

My guides have been a bit annoyed at me of late.  I haven't been listening to them.  Now I am, and what they have to say is quite interesting.

The notion of Twin Flames, Twin Souls, etc is not a con-artist ranting, but instead the attempt by our own minds to put in a 3D box that which cannot be.  People who say that twins are "bullshit" or "don't exist" miss the bigger picture.   It's not that they don't exist, it's that those who did the "buy in" (myself included)  missed the essential message.  That message is that we are all, in the end, merely looking for answers and our own individual truth.  We can't rely on one person to bring that to us.  We can't rely on one person to be the "cure all" for the problems which ail our soul.  When we do that, we open ourselves up for manipulation by those who really are con-artists and manipulators.  Some would even argue go so far as to call these folks narcissists but, as narcissists serve no purpose but to ingratiate themselves for their own self serving purpose, that argument is a bit heavy handed.  Still to put all our eggs in one basket is both hubris and risking our own development.

So if we meet someone who meets the "checklist" criteria of a twin, what do we do?  Do we push them away, do we engage that?  The answer is that we treat them as we would anyone else in our lives - case by case.  Everyone who comes into our lives has something to teach us, and the lesson isn't always pleasant.  Sometimes it's the ecstasy of learning what we love in the bedroom, sometimes it's the need to hold ourselves accountable because of a lost job.  Sometimes we even get to see what about us we don't like, and see our own hypocrisy in action when we complain about the actions of another towards us when we behave the same exact way.  There is no set formula; the universe decides who to present to us at the appropriate moment.  It is up to both parties to choose if they are right for each other as a friend or lover.  Often the parties are in agreement but, many times, they are not.  Some of us cling to a notion which is false by justifying it as something other than what it is.  

Let me be clear - anyone who is supposedly your "sacred" will NOT mentally, emotionally, or physically abuse you.  They will NOT take you for granted.  Instead they will CHERISH you for what you are, warts and all.  You could be an adulterer, depressed, angry or broke. If you treat them as a cherished person and they return that love, they are sacred.  That's it, that's enough.  If they aren't, move on.

It doesn't matter if they aren't ready or you aren't ready.  If the two are TRULY meant to be together, the universe and Divine WILL conspire to unify the pair when the time is right and choices are made.  Otherwise, forgive yourself for being blinded by the kitten and unicorn thinking, and get back to the gritty and HIGHLY REWARDING work of you that is at hand.